Back to the 90’s for my leaving do!
Of course, I couldn’t leave the chilly shores of Ye Olde England without a good old shindig to party with all the people most special to me – and how better to celebrate that by taking them all back to the 90’s?! I love a good party and I love when people go all out, dress up and have a fabulous time together – so I insisted on a nineties theme – with plans for decorations and all sorts. It was an amazing night, everyone made such a HUGE effort on the costume front, particularly all the boys who never do dress-up – it really made all the difference and we had some seriously good ideas. Among the costumes we had two Ginger Spice’s, one half of Dumb & Dumber, some 90’s chavs, a bit of grunge and Clueless, Mrs Doubtfire, Wayne’s World, Hunter S Thompson from Fear & Loathing In Las Vegas, The Big Lebowski, Ali G, Buzz Lightyear and loads more! Talk about a great mix, and I made sure the house was decorated with posters of music, TV stars and films from the 90’s, some great cassette tape bunting I found on eBay. We had a soundtrack of pure 90’s music and plenty of 90’s sweets like sherbet dips, flying saucers and lollies. But what made it the most special was having so many of my favourite people there – I’m so happy so many could make it and to have spent a night partying with them all. Of course, I too dressed up for the party – finally achieving my wish of becoming Princess Jasmine from Aladdin (one of my favourite Disney movies from the era) – and if you can’t be a princess at your own party, when can you? I found this great costume online for less than £20, despite it being exactly the same as a £70 version! If you have a party like this, or any fancy dress theme its always worth shopping around for fancy dress online – when I was at university I was a bit of a pro at this – so many shops stock exactly the same outfits under different names/labels and at very different prices – and there is always one with a sale on! I loved my costume, and added some gold sparkle make-up and a bit of bling and I was ready to go.Of course, there was also a sad side to the party – it was so hard to say goodbye to my closest friends and there were some tears. I was proud I actually managed to hold it together during the party, but was a bit of a mess the next day. It’s hard to say goodbye to those closest to you, even when you know you are making the right decision. My mum keeps reminding me that it’s a very different world now and when people go travelling, they don’t really go away. That there’s no waiting for the post to arrive with hopes of a letter saying all is well, now you can Skype, Whatsapp, email, text, write… You can be in contact constantly if you want – it is harder than ever to go off the radar and with social media it is so easy to share every step of your journey. She’s right, I know that wherever I am in the world and however long I have been away, that I can instantly get in contact with my family or friends if I need or want to. If something happens and any of us need to talk or just to see each other’s faces, it will be possible. Just because you’re 2,000 miles away, doesn’t mean you have any excuse to be a bad friend.
Have you had a 90’s party? Who would you dress up as? What’s the hardest goodbye you’ve had?
Charlie Elliott (@charlienin)
Three of my best friends live abroad and your mum is so right, it doesn’t stop a strong friendship at all. I have almost daily contact with all of them and it’s always hard to say goodbye when I do see them, but I love them just as much as ever!
That’s so lovely Charlie – it’s so nice to know that you can be so close to someone even when the distance between you is huge, I always think you get out of a relationship what you put in so if you give nothing then you gain nothing from the friendship. I bet it makes it all the more special when you do get to see each other!
I got it correct then! I saw your photos on Facebook and at first I thought it was Disney but then I saw Ali G and I definitely thought 90’s! Woohoo! Hope you’re having a great time on your travels. I can’t wait to go to Oz in June! xx
Yayyy well done! That must mean you are a true nineties kid if you knew straight away! Thanks amy! So excited for you! You’ll have to drop me a message and we’ll see if our paths cross! Xxx
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