Leaving Melbourne is always much harder than leaving any other place I’ve been to. I’m lucky enough to have the most amazing group of friends there that have become more like family over the last few years, and they make it very hard to move on. Right now I’m sat in the airport waiting to board my flight to Adelaide where I’ll be spending a week catching up with an old friend, but as excited as I am to see him, there is part of me that is really sad to be leaving this city. It just holds so many amazing memories, so many incredible people that have meant the world to me. In my two six-month stints living here I’ve had some of my biggest travelling highs and lows – I’ve had great loves, found some crazy new careers to be successful in and made some new friends for life. So it seemed only right to leave with a bang and how better to finish my time here than with a weekend spent with some of the best people I’ve met here, and my closest friends, celebrating a joint birthday? Around 16 of us rented a house for the weekend in Ocean Grove, just past Geelong on Great Ocean Road, for a weekend of fun, partying and luxury. The house was amazing – more than we could have hoped for – with a heated outdoor swimming pool, a huge barbecue area, surfboards, a man cave with a pool table, karaoke and much more. Best of all? It overlooked the ocean with some amazing views of passing ships including the Spirit of Tasmania. At just $100 each for the weekend, it was a bargain with plenty of money left over for barbecue food and drinks.Driving up on the Friday evening, we were overwhelmed by the incredible home that awaited us for the weekend. Celebrating with birthday cakes, pizzas, a LOT of drinks and a LOT of crazy dancing ending with a pool party. It was so much fun and just what we all needed. The following day we headed down to check out the beach, some of the gang grabbing scooters and skateboards from the man cave. A blustery beach walk awaited us, and a lot of hilarity as one of the boys stripped off and dived into the freezing water. Afterwards we headed into the town for a pint and to buy more food for dinner, before heading back to the house for more pool time and a lot of girls vs guys games. It was so nice to have so much chill time together as a group, while getting drunk was fun, I will treasure the downtime we had just as much. Our last night was filled with barbecue, chilled drinks, games of pool and some bad karaoke. A perfect end to a perfect last weekend.While I’m sad to be leaving, it has definitely reminded me how lucky I am – not only to have such amazing friends but also to have the freedom to live this traveller life. What is it Winnie-The-Pooh said?
“How lucky I am to have something that makes saying goodbye so hard” – A.A.Milne
What makes me luckiest of all is knowing I have this to come back to – if it doesn’t work out on the West Coast, I have a family waiting here for me to return. That’s what makes it easy to leave – knowing it doesn’t have to be the end of this life or these friendships. Melbourne, you’ve been great to me these past few months, but it’s definitely time to move on and see something new, something different that takes my breath away.
But for now, Melbourne, over and out.
Of course, I couldn’t leave the chilly shores of Ye Olde England without a good old shindig to party with all the people most special to me – and how better to celebrate that by taking them all back to the 90’s?! I love a good party and I love when people go all out, dress up and have a fabulous time together – so I insisted on a nineties theme – with plans for decorations and all sorts. It was an amazing night, everyone made such a HUGE effort on the costume front, particularly all the boys who never do dress-up – it really made all the difference and we had some seriously good ideas. Among the costumes we had two Ginger Spice’s, one half of Dumb & Dumber, some 90’s chavs, a bit of grunge and Clueless, Mrs Doubtfire, Wayne’s World, Hunter S Thompson from Fear & Loathing In Las Vegas, The Big Lebowski, Ali G, Buzz Lightyear and loads more! Talk about a great mix, and I made sure the house was decorated with posters of music, TV stars and films from the 90’s, some great cassette tape bunting I found on eBay. We had a soundtrack of pure 90’s music and plenty of 90’s sweets like sherbet dips, flying saucers and lollies. But what made it the most special was having so many of my favourite people there – I’m so happy so many could make it and to have spent a night partying with them all. Of course, I too dressed up for the party – finally achieving my wish of becoming Princess Jasmine from Aladdin (one of my favourite Disney movies from the era) – and if you can’t be a princess at your own party, when can you? I found this great costume online for less than £20, despite it being exactly the same as a £70 version! If you have a party like this, or any fancy dress theme its always worth shopping around for fancy dress online – when I was at university I was a bit of a pro at this – so many shops stock exactly the same outfits under different names/labels and at very different prices – and there is always one with a sale on! I loved my costume, and added some gold sparkle make-up and a bit of bling and I was ready to go.Of course, there was also a sad side to the party – it was so hard to say goodbye to my closest friends and there were some tears. I was proud I actually managed to hold it together during the party, but was a bit of a mess the next day. It’s hard to say goodbye to those closest to you, even when you know you are making the right decision. My mum keeps reminding me that it’s a very different world now and when people go travelling, they don’t really go away. That there’s no waiting for the post to arrive with hopes of a letter saying all is well, now you can Skype, Whatsapp, email, text, write… You can be in contact constantly if you want – it is harder than ever to go off the radar and with social media it is so easy to share every step of your journey. She’s right, I know that wherever I am in the world and however long I have been away, that I can instantly get in contact with my family or friends if I need or want to. If something happens and any of us need to talk or just to see each other’s faces, it will be possible. Just because you’re 2,000 miles away, doesn’t mean you have any excuse to be a bad friend.
Have you had a 90’s party? Who would you dress up as? What’s the hardest goodbye you’ve had?